HANDLING LOVE

A SMALL ARTICLE WRITTEN BY PRITISH NADKARNI.




IF U FIND URSELF IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WHO DOES NOT LOVE U, BE GENTLE WITH URSELF.THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH U. LOVE JUST DIDN'T CHOOSE TO REST IN THE OTHER PERSONS HEART. IF U FIND SOMEONE ELSE IN LOVE WITH U AND U DON'T LOVE HIM/ HER, FEEL HONOURED THAT LOVE CAME AND CALLED AT UR DOOR, BUT GENTLY REFUSE THE GIFT U CANNOT RETURN.

DO NOT TAKE ADVANTAGE,DO NOT CAUSE PAIN.


HOW U DEAL WITH LOVE IS HOW U DEAL WITH U, AND ALL OUR HEARTS FEEL THE SAME PAINS AND JOYS,EVEN IF OUR LIVES AND WAYS ARE DIFFERENT.

IF U FALL IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER,AND SHE FALLS IN LOVE WITH U, AND THEN LOVE CHOOSES TO LEAVE, DO NOT TRY TO RECLAIM IT OR TO ACCESS BLAME, LET IT GO. THERE IS A REASON AND THERE IS A MEANING. U WILL KNOW IN TIME.

REMEMBER THAT U DON'T CHOOSE LOVE.LOVE CHOOSES U. ALL U CAN REALLY DO IS ACCEPT IT FOR ALL ITS MYSTERY WHEN IT COMES TO UR LIFE.FEEL THE WAY IT FILLS U TO OVERFLOWING, THEN REACH OUT AND GIVE IT AWAY.



GIVE IT BACK TO THE PERSON WHO BROUGHT IT ALIVE IN U.

GIVE IT TO OTHERS WHO DEEM IT POOR IN SPIRIT.

GIVE IT TO THE WORLD AROUND U IN ANYWAY U CAN.



THIS IS WHERE MANY LOVERS GO WRONG.HAVING BEEN SO LONG WITHOUT LOVE, THEY UNDERSTAND LOVE ONLY AS A NEED.THEY SEE THEIR HEARTS AS EMPTY PLACES THAT WILL BE FILLED BY LOVE, AND THEY BEGIN TO LOOK AT LOVE AS SOMETHING THAT FLOWS TO THEM RATHER THAN FROM THEM.



THE FIRST BLUSH OF NEW LOVE IS FILLED TO OVERFLOWING, BUT AS THEIR LOVE COOLS, THEY REVERT TO SEEING THEIR LOVE AS A NEED.THEY CEASE TO BE SOMEONEWHO GENERATES LOVE AND INSTEAD BECOME SOMEONE WHO SEEKS LOVE. THEY FORGET THAT THE SECRET OF LOVE IS THAT IT IS A GIFT,AND THAT IT CAN BE MADE TO GROW ONLY BY GIVING IT AWAY.



REMEMBER THIS,AND KEEP IT TO UR HEART.LOVE HAS ITS OWN TIME, ITS OWN SEASONS, AND ITS OWN REASON FOR COMING AND GOING.U CANNOT BRIBE IT OR COERCE IT, OR REASON IT INTO SAYING. U CAN ONLY EMBRACE IT WHEN IT ARRIVES AND GIVE IT AWAY WHEN IT COMES TO U.

BUT IF LOVE CHOOSES TO LEAVE FROM UR HEART OR FROM THE HEART OF UR LOVER,THERE IS NOTHING U CAN DO AND THERE IS NOTHING U SHOULD DO. LOVE ALWAYS HAS BEEN AND ALWAYS WILL BE A MYSTERY.



BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE FOR A MOMENT IN UR LIFE,

DON'T DENY LOVE, JUST ONLY U DON'T WANT TO BE HURT
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IF U KEEP UR HEART OPEN, IT WILL SURELY COME ONCE AGAIN.